We all want to learn to play better golf and hit better shots, but there’s one skill in the game that doesn’t take any talent—etiquette. When you’re confident that you’re wearing appropriate (and flattering) clothes, you’re up on the basic rules of golf and you’ve been making solid contact with the ball, it’s time for the true test of golf: playing on the course. These simple guidelines will keep you in the good graces of your playing competitors. I always tell my students that no one remembers whether you shot 97 or 107, but they’ll never forget the time you answered your cell phone in their backswing.
Keep Up: Fast golf is fun golf, and you don’t have to be good to be fast. Most of the time wasted in a round is on the greens, so be ready to putt before it’s your turn.
Keep Quiet: This may be obvious for many, but golf is a gentlemen’s (er, gentlelady’s) game and being polite is a big part of it. Friendly conversation is too! Knowing when to end the chat and when to play is important. Jack Nicklaus was rumored to have a “40 pace” rule: once he was within 40 paces of his ball he went into “game mode” to stay focused. Maybe 10 paces is enough for your Sunday foursome, but having the focus in the right place will help both you and your playing partners. When in doubt, don’t make noise or talk after someone has started taking practice swings or is lining up their shot.
Be Safe, Be in the Right Place. If you imagine an overhead view of a person hitting a golf shot, the safest place to be is to the rear and on the “belt-buckle” side of the player, and at least 6 feet away. Any of the other three quadrants are susceptible to sculled shots, shanks and flying equipment. If you’re already on the “backbone” side of a player, try to be at least 12 feet away. Again, always pay attention to your fellow golfers’ shots. Never stand on or behind the line of a shot, especially on the putting green, and be wary of everyone’s position on the green before you accidentally step on their line—this is a major faux pas.
Care for the Course. Leaving your mark on the course is normal, and good, but try to leave the course better than you found it.
Repair ball marks. I constantly see this done wrong! The idea is to replace the middle of the ball mark with the surrounding healthy grass, so whether you do this with a tee, a switch blade, or a “divot repair tool,” you should be pulling in, not lifting up.